Pam Anderson’s not in an ‘okay’ place with ex Tommy Lee: ‘Wish we did have a better rapport’

Pamela Anderson is getting candid about her relationship with Tommy Lee.

“The Last Showgirl” star, 57, admitted that she and the Mötley Crüe member, 62, have not been speaking as often in recent years.

“Forgive me — is Brandon’s dad Tommy?” Andy Cohen asked Anderson while hosting his SiriusXM’s “Andy Cohen Live” show on Thursday.

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“Both of them are. Same father,” the model responded about her sons, Brandon, 28, and Dylan, 27.

When Cohen, 56, asked if Anderson and Lee remain “capisce,” she said, “I mean, we used to talk a lot more. Not recently, unfortunately, but you know, I wish we did have a better rapport right now.”

“My youngest son is engaged and we’re gonna have grandkids together,” Anderson added. “It’ll be okay, eventually. It’s just kind of a moment right now.”

Anderson and Lee tied the knot after a whirlwind romance in 1995 before welcoming Brandon, their oldest child, in 1996.

After a tumultuous relationship, the pair divorced in 1998, but they continued to get back together and broke up several times.

Lee was famously known for his jealousy over Anderson, with one dramatic incident occurring when the rocker trashed the star’s “Baywatch” trailer after finding out she had an onscreen kiss with her co-star David Chokachi.

His character, lifeguard Cody Madison, was in a romance with Anderson’s C.J. Parker, much to Lee’s dismay.

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Chokachi, 56, recounted the scary incident last March.

“I was there when he destroyed her trailer,” the actor explained to Fox News Digital. “I literally walked by her trailer and I heard, like, demolished … things shattering, and I didn’t know what was going on. I went down to the set and found out he had destroyed her $1 million trailer.”

“It turns out he wasn’t that bad guy, and we ended up going to dinner and partying together a couple of times, but he was insanely jealous, and he did not like to see his wife or girlfriend at the time on camera kissing another dude,” Chokachi said. “He just was … extremely jealous, threatened the producers’ lives. I mean, I was like, ‘It’s just TV, man.'”

Over the years, Anderson has spoken out about Lee’s jealousy in“Pamela, A Love Story.”

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In the 2023 documentary, she said Lee would “sneak in” her trailer between filming “because it was his time with his wife.”

While reading an excerpt from her diary, Anderson said she hadn’t told Lee about the kiss, and once he found out, “he lost it.”

“He came and trashed my trailer on the set. Put his fist through a cabinet. I apologized for not telling him – lying, as he put it – and told him it wouldn’t happen again,” she said.

Chokachi remembered the entire situation being “very sad.”

“Unfortunately, like, for her, I saw the effect of him and his, like, his kind of power or his, like, nastiness, because she’d be really nervous,” he said.

“If there was a make-out scene, she’d have to tell him we’re shooting at a different location or tell the crew to tell Tommy we’re going to be shooting somewhere else, so he doesn’t show up on set and see her making out with me because he’s going to go to through the roof,” Chokachi added.

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“You could tell she was nervous about it, like just on her mind a lot – the unease that was at home. It’s definitely a bummer because she’s such an awesome human being. She is so funny and so beautiful. I was like, ‘Why would anybody treat this girl like anything but the amazing human being that she is.’ I couldn’t understand it,” Chokachi said.

Following her divorce from Lee, Anderson has been married multiple times. She tied the knot with Kid Rock in 2006 and called it quits a year later.

She married professional poker player Rick Salomon in October 2007. The pair were given an annulment in March 2008, but they remarried and divorced again in 2014.

In 2020, it was reported that Anderson wed Jon Peters but the marriage lasted just 12 days; however, she told The Hollywood Reporter’s “Awards Chatter” podcast in December that the rumors weren’t true.

In January 2021, Anderson shared that she had married her bodyguard Dan Hayhurst, but a rep for the actress told People in January 2022 that they had split.

Lee has been married to comedian Brittany Furlan since February 2019 after they met on the dating app Raya in 2017.